Sex Nerd Sandra

For real, I don’t think I’ve visited this website since 2017. I’ve been on social media, but I have a distinct fear of my own website. I mean, wow, 2012 is calling. This post isn’t any announcement or big change. Over the last long while many lovely humans have said they miss my podcast, miss … More Hi friend. Whatcha up to?

Herroooo! I’m back releasing podcasts weekly. Get up in it! I’ll be releasing 10 (let’s call it a season) then taking a break for a few weeks and then 10 more etc and so on. I’m so glad to be back and loving on these first two interviews. CLICK ON THE PIC TO GET TO … More Oh Snap! I’m back in podcast mode.

Just now I received an email: My wife and I have been rebuilding our relationship after a long period of trials and tribulations. We work opposite hours until recently and have been spending a lot more time together. Both one on one as well as family time. Lately I’ve been having trouble raising and maintaining … More Help! My penis isn’t working!

It’s Easter. Jesus is Risen. Spring has sprung. Love is in the air. Walking my dog this morning, my thoughts went from all the recent terrorist attacks on the globe, to all the political brown-people-scapegoating and spent the most time on the massive amount of weight I’ve gained. So let’s get vain. Seriously, the human world … More Fat on Easter

IN and OUT. In. Out. Hands can create so much more. Stillness and circles.

  It’s exactly one month after Valentine’s Day and you know what that means. Yep! And when it’s Steak & a Blowjob Day, I can’t help giggling about angry people. Yes, while this carnivorous joke-of-a-holiday originated to payback  dudes bitter over all the roses and chocolate they shelled out for last month, I laugh. LAUGH, I tell you, because … More Happy Steak & a BJ Day! Got Reciprocity?

Hi! Guess what? I’m finally doing what you’ve been asking me to do for years. WEEKLY LIVE ONLINE CLASSES for the next 3 months! No matter where you are in the world, if you have a smartphone, tablet or computer, you can attend one of my workshops as it’s happening.  Anonymously ask questions as I teach each workshop … More Class now in Session! Attend a Sex Class in Your Pajamas.

Some folks say it’s weird Or gay or dirty or hurts Nope. It’s just butt stuff.

I’ve been thinking about fingertips a lot lately. Specifically how we use them in our day and how that translates to our night. I tweeted yesterday, “Don’t touch like  you text” and I received several responses musing about what that might mean.  It all started a few years ago as a baby sex educator when I … More “Don’t Touch Like You Text”