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5 Responses to “Resources”

  1. Glenn November 23, 2013 at 7:52 am #

    – a research paper or sex-related emergency room visits. I had no idea sex could be so dangerous. Oh, who am I kidding – I’m a nurse and have seen them. Fractured penii, anal tears, STD’s, and yet I continue the activity.

  2. John December 24, 2013 at 11:56 am #

    Merry Christmas!

    One request for the new year…

    Could you please do some sound leveling. I have to turn the volume down when ya’ll are laughing or yelling, then have to turn the volume back up to hear when ya’ll are talking it sounds like your whispering, then somebody starts laughing or yelling then have to turn the volume back down. Any way to balance the sound out during post production?

    Thank You

    • Sandra Daugherty December 24, 2013 at 1:07 pm #

      My request for the new year: When a person lets me know about tech issues, they will tell me WHICH episodes they are talking about! Since the beginning, the show’s sound has gone through several shifts in how it is prepared.

      Are you talking about a specific range of episodes or all 123 of them!? I want to make things better!

      Thank you for caring. Happy New Year to you, too.

  3. Elle March 25, 2014 at 9:00 pm #

    Hey Sandra!
    I adore the show. It’s awesome that you are sharing important information with the sexy (monkey) masses. I appreciate that you take a fun and humorous approach to knowledge.
    Now that I’ve given you lots of kudos, I’d like to solicit some advice. I am in a quite committed relationship of about two years and we are almost entirely on the same page about everything. Yet, I have one major issue with our compatibility; our sex drives are polar opposites. I am the sort of person with a pretty high libido, sex daily (if not multiple times a day) would be phenomenal. My high libido is further amplified by taking Wellbutrin daily for anxiety/ADHD. For my boyfriend, however, (slightly vanilla) sex every other week or so seems much more his level. I understand that it stems from low self esteem growing up and essentially lowering his libido to match the what he saw as the likely outcome of his life more or less ending up solo. Obviously there are some self esteem issues on his part. Yet it is coming back and hurting me and therefore our relationship because he is,as I jest, a “sex camel.” The discussions we’ve had about trying to find a middle ground has led to sex about once a week. I have still ended up snappy at times but also quite hurt. I question his attraction to me and it really hurts my self image. I am quite confident he doesn’t understand how much this hurts me and I really don’t want to harp on it. But I could really use some help/advice. As you know, egos are fragile (especially in the bedroom) and I really don’t want to add any stress.
    Thank you so much for any insight you’re able to offer. If you’d like to include this in your podcast to help others you’re welcome to use my name.
    Thanks once again!

    • thegerm August 6, 2014 at 9:57 am #

      Wellbuterin works that way does it? I wish I could help. Reading your story makes me wish there was a meter we could read on our potential Significant Others to identify this kind of thing. “Every Day” or “once a month” or “sometimes” flashing above our heads to give us an idea about this.

      Listening to Sandra’s podcasts helped me. Unfortunately the help I got from it was the opposite sort of what you are looking for. But her podcasts seemed to be filled with all kinds ideas that would be useful in your situation. The challenge is getting your boyfriend to the table without being too forceful or obvious. Sneaking a couple of Sandra’s podcasts into a drive? I am torn between attempting to go over the top (finding a squick episode that can be squicked together) or gentle.

Nerd out here & at the Sex Nerd Sandra facebook page!

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