Hi Friends! I’ve got a trio of vids for you, all in conjunction with this week’s episode, “Women’s Seduction Tips” (click on title to put knowledge into brain via ear-holes).
But first, a big thanks to my guest, Sexuality & Life Coach Alicia Cybulski for being so giving of her time and coming on our show recorded in front of a live audience at NerdMeltLA to talk lady hotness (for anyone who likes to feel like a lady).
So, first, my video on how to take your walk across the room and step it up a notch on the sexy scale. I feel a little like a douche making a vid like this, but I know a sexy walk is an important element so I went with it.
Second, check out Rihanna’s “Umbrella” Video. Specifically, minute 1:20 – 1:40 when she has several close-ups with the camera. She is doing quite subtle eye movements at the camera and looking away. She is controlled, but precise.
Now practice with a friend. Try a bunch of eye contact across-the-room looks and have them call out “awkward!” “hot!” “try it again, a little less dramatic!” until you have a better idea of what you’re working with. You’ll hone in on your own sexy soon enough.
Before the last vid, if you enjoy the show, please give me the holiday gift of a happy comment on iTunes. Every comment helps in keeping it visible for other people to find.
Okay! Finally, I give you a hilarious link to an SNL vid on how to flirt, via my friend Lynn Struiksma. Take a gander.
I appreciate you. I hope you have a wonderful rest of the holidays!
~Sex Nerd Sandra
Addendum to the Addendum: I forgot to post THIS vid of Matthew Hussey! I mention it on the show as my source material for how to tell if a guy likes you so you know it’s safe to start touching yourself 😉