“Women’s Seduction Tips” Episode Addendum

Hi Friends! I’ve got a trio of vids for you, all in conjunction with this week’s episode, “Women’s Seduction Tips” (click on title to put knowledge into brain via ear-holes).

We got personalized cookies after the show!

But first, a big thanks to my guest, Sexuality & Life Coach Alicia Cybulski for being so giving of her time and coming on our show recorded in front of a live audience at NerdMeltLA to talk lady hotness (for anyone who likes to feel like a lady).

So, first, my video on how to take your walk across the room and step it up a notch on the sexy scale. I feel a little like a douche making a vid like this, but I know a sexy walk is an important element so I went with it.

Second, check out Rihanna’s “Umbrella” Video. Specifically, minute 1:20 – 1:40 when she has several close-ups with the camera. She is doing quite subtle eye movements at the camera and looking away. She is controlled, but precise.

Now practice with a friend. Try a bunch of eye contact across-the-room looks and have them call out “awkward!” “hot!” “try it again, a little less dramatic!” until you have a better idea of what you’re working with.  You’ll hone in on your own sexy soon enough.

Before the last vid, if you enjoy the show, please give me the holiday gift of a happy comment on iTunes. Every comment helps in keeping it visible for other people to find.

Okay! Finally, I give you a hilarious link to an SNL vid on how to flirt, via my friend Lynn Struiksma. Take a gander.

Saturday Night Live – Weekend Update: Rebecca Larue – Video – http://www.nbc.com.

I appreciate you. I hope you have a wonderful rest of the holidays!

~Sex Nerd Sandra


Addendum to the Addendum: I forgot to post THIS vid of Matthew Hussey! I mention it on the show as my source material for how to tell if a guy likes you so you know it’s safe to start touching yourself 😉

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4 thoughts on ““Women’s Seduction Tips” Episode Addendum

  1. I just listened to this episode and near the beginning when you were talking about using what you have for women, and specifically shoulders, I thought about a blog post I wrote years ago called “4 Aspects of Sexy”.

    As a photographer, I wrote it after shooting with a few women/new models who didn’t have any understanding of being sexy. It is also very much about how to dress, and not about other aspects of sexy


    Your shoulder/halter top tip fits under #1.

  2. I think this video by Eartha Kitt is extremely sexy and playful. It’s all about her facial expressions. Especially that cute little look she gives to the camera at the end. I love it!

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